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Old 01-22-2004, 10:58 AM
pirepresent pirepresent is offline
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Originally posted by BetaRose
Wow. Congratulations on getting 3 bids.

As to whether or not you should keep trying with the sheep, I would say to let it go. One of two things has happened with this group.

1. They liked you, but don't have enough open spaces to offer you a bid.

2. For whatever reason, they don't think you are a good fit with their chapter.

Which ever reason it is that they didn't give you a bid last night, its unlikely that it will change this week. What you do have is bids from 2 houses that you liked and were comfortable at, who liked you enough to ask you to be their sister.
Excellent advice BetaRose. lil_princess, I would definetly say let go of the group you liked the most and take a good look at the ones you recieved bids from, especially the two where you were comfortable.

I've seen so many women in this situation, and 99% of the time, if they're open minded and accept the bid to their second choice sorority, they still end up absolutely loving it more than anything, and later on looking back at their rush experience and thinking "maybe I wouldn't have been such a good fit for sheep after all..."

I am so happy for you that, even though you're a little disappointed, you still have so many choices!! Congrats and keep us posted!
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