In regards to what Taz-Shedevil said about not looking into what it is that one was trying to do, i have one comment to make. When i was approached with the whole "sweetheart" thing, I asked all the people that i could find that might have some knowledge about it, i even asked some Deltas that used to be sweets. The thing is that no one had anything negative to say about it. It probably is my fault that i didn't know about this site before hand, but time was wearing down and i had to make a decision, so i had to reason to think that it could have been bad. yes this is going on the trust of someone else but it was so many people that it really didn't seem bad.