The auxillary group I was in was all a learning experience to me. It was very similar to Mancala's group. I did not see our group as a problem because we never tried to be something that we weren't. We knew that we were not part of the NPHC, and we did not act as if we were, or were trying to be. In fact the only way people knew we even existed was by word of mouth. To me, being in an auxillary was a chance to form a close bond with a group of other girls, and to get to form a brother/sister bond with a group of guys that i knew next to nothing about when I first entered college. It also helped me to meet various other people from some of the other BGLO's because some of them worked with us, and as we helped the guys do community service, and various activites, we also met others. I understand that some aux. groups take their "calls" and "chants" to the limit, but that wasn't the case with us. I hope that all the auxillary groups aren't viewed the same way, because some are defenitely stepping over their boundaries according to what I have read in previous replies. Well I guess I have said enough. May God Bless you all
Peace and Love,
Ambitious 1
[This message has been edited by ambitious 1 (edited June 04, 2000).]