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Originally posted by CrimsonTide4
1. If it were OPTIONAL, would you choose to do it?
2. What are the PROS? Cons, if any?
3. If you wanted it, but your mate didn't, then what? or vice verse, mate wants and you don't?
4. For those who are married or engaged, did you have it? How did it help you? What are some of the topics discussed?
5. Spiritual or non spiritual form of counseling?
Just some things that have been on my mind lately. 
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I'm nowhere close to thinking about marriage but anyway:
1. Yes, I would chose it.
2. Pros, I'd be getting advice from someone with more experience. COn, it might be biased or judgemental. Hopefully not
3. We'd just have to talk about it. If my mate wanted it and I didn't, I'd probably go just to keep the peace. The problem might be where we go for the counseling.
4. N/A
5. Spiritual - it's always good to learn about the Christian approach to marriage.