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Originally posted by USFstudent
I'm prolly going to get flamed for this, BUT,
She said her family wouldn't approve, not that she wasn't interested. Is it possible that this is valid?
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That's exactly what I was going to say. She said her family wouldn't like it if she dated him...but did she say
she didn't want to? I think her only mistake was that she was a little too honest. I understand not wanting to piss family off, since they can make things
real hard, but she should have just told him she wouldn't go out with him. Period. No explanation. I know that my family would feel the same way hers does, but would I ever tell a guy that? Nooooooooooooo. I would simply say, "You'd be a nice friend, but I'm not interested in dating." Although, at this point in my life, I doubt I would discount a great guy like that because my family never approves anyway, but I realize that some people do feel the need to take into account what their family would do/say.