Well, my non-Greek husband drives my car w/ the DST plates or DST window sticker. I do not trip because he takes care of my car, runs errands for me and drives me when I do not want to drive myself. I often see other husbands driving their wife's car, especially picking them up from the train station. No big deal. ::shrug::
As far as clothing or items like cups, no way is a non-soror going to wear or use it. I don't want any confusion. When my non-Greek mom attends Delta functions with me, I advise her not to wear red so that there will be no embarassment and she totally understands. As far as the umbrella thing, I don't even use them!
I disagree about the 'as long as it is in private' permission. No way is NO WAY.
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