the reason i asked because that situation happened to a friend of mine and she asked my honest opinion.
it made me question a few older greeks from back in the day. some answers i received were:
if she was my girlfriend or sweetheart-back then you let your sweetheart(girlfriend) wear your jacket of sweater, to let everyone know that you were together.
then again time were different back and chivarly was in...now and days, you rarely see it.
then that brought the thought to my mind....dang, she stepped out the shower and needed something to through on and that might have been the nearest thing at hand and he got pissed because she put his robe on.
then that brought in the mind of carrying... say an umbrella. if it was pouring rain outside and one of my family or co-workers asked to borrow my umbrella to run to the store or out to car to grab something.
would i lend it to them, with concern in my mind of them getting wet?
or
should i be more concerned that my letters are on the umbrella someone might mistake them to be member of my org?
but I can imagine my grandma asking to borrow my umbrella and me saying no...I can imagine a POP!!! in the lips.

thank the lord that hasn't happened!!! i couldn't bare getting POPed in the lips by g-ma
[This message has been edited by MaMaBuddha (edited February 28, 2001).]