ok ok- you guys are right- i was trying to be diplomatic! lol but it probably would help to "bash" her but also- make sure not to make him feel bad that he would like this girl- as if you don't approve of his taste (say a girl turned you down and all your boys were like she's a slut blah blah.... then what do they think about the other girls you like?) maybe thats jsut a girl thing.... hmmmmm
lol (it most likely is)