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Originally posted by ThetaPrincess24
I like to wait a few months. This is because I like to really get to know the person first.........and I dont think that can be done after the first date, second date, or even after the tenth date.......takes time. I've found that those relationships where I wait longer usually last longer.
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I thought a lot about this quote...thetaprincess probably didn't mean to be so profound *smile*, but maybe it says a lot about why the statistics show that those who wait until marriage to have sex are twice as likely to stay married. I'm not commenting on the "right" or "wrong" of it...but it is just an interesting observation to consider...that maybe knowing someone REALLY well before sharing this experience is not such a bad idea.
Am I the only one who is caught off guard by people thinking a month is an incredibly short amount of time to "wait"?