I have no plans to have children but if I do I want the man to stay at home. I would go crazy! I will have a nanny also.
I had one and loved it
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My mother stayed at home until I was 13-14 yrs old-that is when my parents got divorced. She had to go and get a job to support us. When she retired her social security was crap b/c she did not work for so many years. IMO if you are going to stay at home that is great but make sure you have a great retirement account that is yours and only yours. You never know if your marriage will last and if you did not work you won't get much social security b/c you did not pay in. Just my .02$