Maybe instead of the social graces you think these kids should be taught, they could have a class on how to grow a pair instead. I went to the last university that my parents wanted me to go to, and majored in the last thing they wanted me to study. They dealt with it, and they still paid for it. And don't try and throw that cultural crap at me - if you want to play that way, then I was pressured into going to college because that's what nice Irish Catholic girls from the suburbs do, and the guy who panhandles on the 10th Street Bridge does so because that's what poor black people in the city do.
