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Old 01-16-2004, 02:49 PM
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Originally posted by Taualumna
I'm glad the school pressures social graces. We need it in this day and age! Too bad most schools no longer do that. I find it really sad. Anyway, colleges never pressure their students to major in one thing or another. They shouldn't...it's not their job. Besides, students are usually 18 or pretty close to 18 when they're in their first year. Some parents, however, do pressure their kids. My parents never did, but I know that inside, they would have preferred that I majored in Life Sciences (premed) than history/drama. Looking back, I somewhat agree. Drama was bad for me, and I'm now somewhat embarassed that I did that.
I'm sure a lot of parents would have prefered if they kids had made different choices in certain aspects of their lives. However, by the time we're 18 and heading of to university/college we should be able to make our own desicions and learn from our own mistakes.
Parents should stay out of it. They can offer suggestions/guidence...that's what they are there for, but not to pressure anyone, that's not there job. As an adult, if you can't make your own descions, well I don't know what to say...
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