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Has it ever occurred to you that he may be fine for her?
Most people don't have the best social/relationship skills anyway, look at a lot of the posts from GC women about their relationships. They just aren't very good at it and they don't know the difference.
And in this case all the problems that you are mentioning, that you want to relate to her, were not the deal breaker for you. The deal breaker was that he was having sex with someone else.
You may very well feel bad for putting up with his mental illness or his questionable relationship skills, but put up with them you did.
You are just basically eating crow for staying so long in an uppleasant scene. That does not speak well of you. Nor does it encourage others to understand.
Why kill her buzz? She is having a good time. And also, people can be different with different people.
For example, how many women have lamented that their Bf wouldn't marry them only to break up and see him marry someone else? The truth there was not that he didn't weant to marry, he didn't want to marry her.
So let her choose her own path based on the way he acts towards her. And be of good cheer, most relationships fail over time anyway, even without someone trying to sabotage it.
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