[AlphaPhiBubbles]

Originally posted by CarolinaDG
While we were at SEPC, one of my DZ friends noticed a DG smoking outside in her letters. She was absolutely apalled, and asked me why I didn't go up and say something to her. I told her that the girl wasn't in my chapter and I didn't feel like it was cool of me to go up and reem out a girl that I didn't know, but it posed to interesting subjects... one, is it your business if you see someone not in your chapter behaving inappropriately to talk to them, and two, if this DZ noticed and said something about someone not even in her sorority, than that means that most greeks have the same thought when they see it, so even if it's not so that anti-greeks think well of you, but maybe more so other greeks, because they are obviously looking for the same things you are.

I know that personally, if a sister from another chapter who was close to my age came up to me, and despite how polite she was, tried to tell me what to do, I would not only probably ignore her, I would be a little annoyed. Maybe it's just because of my stubborn nature but I don't like strangers telling me what to do. On the other hand, I would see what she was trying to do, would feel kind of ashamed and probably wouldn't smoke in my letters again that day.

Although if it was an older alumna, I think I would have more respect for her and put out the cig. But thats just cuz of the whole "respect your elders" thing. If it weren't for alumnae i wouldn't be an Alpha Phi.