Well to me, reading ths as an objective observer, it looks like you want a little payback more than you want to protect someone.
If you think about it, what are you protecting her from? You were the other woman in this case. He was serious with her and "seeing" you.
Now that you are gone the relationship should be fine.
So why try and ruin it for her?
Also, you have little room to criticisize because you has an open relationship. I have never heard of a conditionally open relationship before. That just dosn't make sense unless you are paying word games with each other.
What it looks like is that you had an open relationship as long as he wasn't actually seeing anyone else lol . . .
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