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Originally posted by Tiffany:
Question?
Why is it black women get so offended when black men date white women? Everyone (black women included) is always talking about getting over this white/black thing, everyone should be treated equally, etc. but then you make comments like i have read here. Men are men and women are women. White, black, purple, or green. If i see a white man with a black woman THAT'S HIM, I DON'T CARE, AS LONG AS IT IS NOT MY MAN!!! What if I say something like "Damn, I hate to see our white men with these black women" or if Brad Pitt married Vivica Fox, I say "Why Brad why, with all the white women in the world". I'd be considered racist. So maybe you all need to check yourself, your level of maturity, and then ask the question again "Why black men come to white women".
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Why Black men come to white women...
Chile, please that's a whole can of worms there! Don't believe the hype. Any time a black male or black female, for that matter, starts dissin members of their race as an excuse for their dating outside of their race, I get extremely PISSED OFF!
Anyone who dates outside of their race exercises their CHOICE to do so. Don't try to negate your heritage, your culture, your momma, daddy (you get what I'm saying) to attempt to justify the CHOICE you've made. (Oh, I can't find a decent black man/woman)-that's bullcrap! I obviously, can't speak for all of the respondants on this thread, but, I BELIEVE that a lot of us are more upset because he's dissin us to justify who he CHOOSES to be with!
To the Taye Diggs and Wesley Snipes of the world, look in the mirror and wonder what is it that I need to perfect within myself so that I might attract someone of my liking. Don't tear down others to justify your CHOICE!
I am truly indifferent to others CHOOSING to date outside of their race. To each his own. Personally, I know I can't bring him home to my daddy so I ain't even going there!
[This message has been edited by jazbri (edited February 14, 2001).]
[This message has been edited by jazbri (edited February 14, 2001).]