I am glad you are being proactive about increasing the positive relaionship intensity. You never have to lose that "new and exciting" feeling. But it depends on the overall relationship skills of both parties.
It would have been better to start programming romance earlier though!
But question: assuming that romance is not intrinsic to his nature are you capable/willing as a girl in carrying that part of your relaltionship yourself? Usually thats the man's role.
Oh, and if you keep a journal track the way you communicate and see if there really is a change. That way you know
Good luck.
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Originally posted by sororitygirl2
So, just wanted to update...
We talked and it was totally good, and we agreed that he will try to be more open and I will try not to push him to analyze every minute detail of each disagreement we have.
Things were still sort of weird after the talk though, and I panicked a little and then we talked AGAIN. We both agreed that we are just getting into that comfortable zone in our relationship where it's not always new and exciting every second, so we are going to plan a romantic date or a trip to do something fun and different.
Thanks for the advice/encouragement, all who replied...
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