Contact
www.npcwomen.org and get the info of the Alum Panhel nearest you. The ones I see on there are in Bergen County and
Rancocas Valley (needless to say I have no idea where these places are). When I've emailed NPC they've been very quick - national groups can be hit or miss depending on which one and what address you use.
Explain what you need and that you want it to be someone whose group isn't there (which by the way, is a VERY VERY VERY VERY smart idea).