I have a slightly different take of what sororitygirl2 is saying . . . men tend to be more oblivious of "Emotional Affairs" we often don't spot them for what they are in regards to our GFs or ourselves.
Or else we wouldn't let you have that best "male friend" that makes us feel vaguely uncomfortable.
Mostly we don't have some best female friend. Men really don't need a member of the opposite sex to be a best friend. Nor do we need our significant other to be a best friend. . However, girls want their partners to be their best friend. Hence the conflict.
Anyway, what I am saying is that women are more apt to "Emotioally Cheat" and are therefore quicker to spot the threat when their Man has a serius emotional attachment to some girl . .. it screams Threat.
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Originally posted by sororitygirl2
A) From talking with guy friends and boyfriends, and from reading a lot of magazine articles, it seems that many men do not consider emotional cheating to be cheating. Not knowing just how far things have gone with this girl or how close they are, it could be that he has no idea that he is doing something wrong. And if he knew it bothered you, he may stop immediately.
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