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Originally posted by Convinced
1. What are your thoughts on the above situation?
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2. What do you think the rules for the morning after should be?
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1. If it was no strings attached...then it's NO strings attached (and there's no reading between the lines)!!!! No phone calls from him/her.....NOTHING! I've learned my lesson!
2. Sorry to be so blunt, but if it was only about sex to begin with and that was agreed upon by both parties, then that's exactly what it is and nothing more. Don't get your feelings involved...you'll just get hurt in the end by expecting more than there ever was. As my mother said, you never shit where you eat. Been there, done that...and I shall never shit where I eat ever again. Now if it's what you agreed to, but secretly wanted more...then you set yourself up for this. Once again, been there done that. Neither of you owe each other a thing except for respect...nothing more nothing less.