i used to believe this. i dated a girl that i treated like a queen and she broke my heart after we dated for like 8 months. she always wanted to try to pick fights with me and would get mad when i wouldnt fight back. i just didnt see the point in fighting with someone when i knew the arguement didnt really matter. i could tell she was just trying to fire me up. but i have a lot of patients. finally she said that it was over and that i was too nice. so i was stupid for a while and became a bad guy. i started drinking and smoking and stuff. and i have to say i had a lot more girls that approached me and it was easier to get a date and stuff, but the thing is none of the relationships ever amounted to anything because there was an emptiness. both of us were not as happy as we could have been, i really didnt like being an a$$ and though it kept her around, she wanted to feel loved. it seems people want what they cant have, and if you like someone but dont think that you can get their love, you try as hard as you can to get it. to end the story i gave up my bad ways when i met my fiance who saw through the crap and took a chance on me. now she is my angel and i treat her like it. though i still have a little streak of it in me.
