i was a psychology major for a while, what your boyfriend is doing is what is called male withdrawl. all males do it, even me and i know about it. its just the psychological reaction to the threat of the arguement. we studied a course that is available called preps. me and my fiance are taking it right now. it teaches you how to talk your way through the fight and get to the real problem which is sometimes no where close to what the arguement seems to be about. it sounds wierd but it actually works.
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