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maybe try actually talking about your approaches to arguments in a non-confrontational way, when you're not in the middle of a fight. just when you're having dinner or something. and be honest with him, like say that you know he doesn't like to talk about issues, and that he prefers to just leave things alone. but it makes you really unhappy when he does that, because part of what you need as a person is to talk about things, and understand why you're fighting and how he's feeling. just say it would mean a lot to you and would make your relationship stronger if he would try to talk things out with you sometimes. and in return, you'll try to let things go sometimes.
it's all about compromise, and maybe he just needs to really understand how important it is to you to talk sometimes.
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