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First-- We are always the MOST open in the beginning of a relationship while infatuated. When you are infatuated you WANT to tell all, talk about all and make accomodations. In fact a lot of people will bend themselves really out of shape in the beginning. So if they are reluctnat to talk early on about problems/stuff it isn't going to get better.
Second-People don't change. They can change themselves but its rare and you can't count on it when making future plans. Like don't count on winning the lottery, but it is possible.
Third-You can't change a boy. Let me repeat that: You Can't Change a Boy. And you wouldn't respect him if you could.
So he won't get better. and he won't change. You just have to decide two things: Is the issue you are arguing aboutand he won't resolve important enough to cast him aside for. If the argument is over butter versus margarine well . . but if the argument is that he won't stop baning fat dirty whores . . well thats different.
And two, is his inability to communicate with you in way that you find meangful, important enough for you to cast him aside . . oh and a third thing . . are you able to make cold blooded decisions like that lol? Most poeple are not.
An dkeep in mind that most peple don't have good lines of communicationwith their Significant other . . and most aren't all that happy they just like being with someone . . . so choose loll.
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