Its really just a matter of how you perceive yourself and how you think other perceive you.
I know I am straight, and I have always felt that other people perceived me to be straight. ( I say PERCEIVE because we all know looks can be deceiving)
But last summer, I found out that this lesbian was interested in me and was asking people about me. Truthfully, I was soooooooo heated. I was like, "If that chick comes up to me...its on."
Why? I guess I feel like we live in a mainly hetero world, so I think that one should assume that someone is hetero unless one finds out otherwise.
So when a hetero person is approached by someone of the same sex, you do wonder, "Was I sending them some clues? And if so, how can I turn them off?"
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