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Originally posted by honeychile
a) If it's not important at College A, put that into words!!: "While a recommendation from a sorority alumnae is always welcomed, we have found that not having recommendations will not hurt your chances during recruitment." How hard is that?
b) If it IS important at College B, warn the PNMs, AND advise them as to obtaining them!!: "A written recommendation from an alumnae from each sorority at College B will greatly improve the PNMs' chances during recruitment. If you are unsure of the procedure for obtaining a recommendation (or rec), please notify (Panhel person) at (email/phone) and she will suggest ways of obtaining recs."
Simple. Easy. Honest.
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Seriously, this is all that needs to be done, and it would clear up tons of confusion and make things so much easier at so many schools. I don't understand why sororities go out of their way to make things tougher on themselves and the PNMs.