Hello everyone. I just had to reply to this message. I am twenty and will be twenty one very soon and I am a virgin. I was a little older than you when I almost experience sexual activity. As this age I did not want to do this but I was willing to do it because I was being pressured by friends about giving it up. These same friends are ones that did not graduate from high school and have children. With the Grace of God this precious gift was not taken from me. I am so grateful that I did not make that horrible mistake. This is something that I want to experience with my husband and no one else. With God's help and mine also this will be something that I will share with him only. Your purity is something special and sacred. Sometimes I have thought about it and this is want I came up with. By being a virgin I do not have to worry about getting pregnant, (especially since I am poor. Who is going to help me raise a child especially since these days people my age are single parents) having a disease, especially something I can not get rid of. You have a nice and special boyfriend. Obviously he cares a great deal about you. Please do not try and force a sexually relationship with him you will only be driving him away. This is one reason why I am single. I can not seem to find people that are willing to put a sexual relationship on hold in relationship so I am waiting on that special Christian man that feel the same way that I do. Besides girl you have other things you need to be thinking about such as TAAS (if you all have this), high school dances, school activities, football and basketball games, church activites, being young, having fun, hanging out with friends, and still being a child. Besides most people that I know who start off having sex at a early age end up having numerous sexual partners in their life. Do not be in such a hurry to give something precious away that you can not get back. Think about this.. What will you do if you become pregnant? Who will take care of this baby will you are in school? At school dances? hanging with freinds? Studying for school? Please think about this and do not let temptation get in the way. Sorry for the long post but I could have continue somemore.
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