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You are in a tough situation to be in. Before you decide to confront or not to confront him you need to decide what the right outcome is for you.
If you want to continue the relationship and forget it happened, the easiest way would be to never bring it up.
If you decide to confront him--decide why you are confronting him-- to end the relationship or use this time to improve the relationship.
It will be difficult no matter what you do. My best friend found an email (on the family account) to her husband from another woman. After reading the email is was clear (w/o a dount) her husband was having an affair--that had been on going. She confronted him with a yellow pages opened to divorce attorneys. He came clean, promised to end the relationship, and they worked through it. It is an on going process from them. They have their moments where things aren't good-- but they are trying to work through it. For them it is alot of work and a lot of commitment.
Good luck.
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