Confiding or not confiding in someone does not always have to do with the level of trust. It may be that she is more comfortable with how your other friend listens or reacts to what she has to say. Not that she doubts your ability to keep her confidence but maybe she feels more comfortable talking about certain things with this other person. Some people only confide in people who they know will tell them what they WANT to hear and not necessarily what they NEED to hear. I would not take it so personally. The sad thing is if she is confiding in your friend and your friend is telling you what she says than how good of a friend is she?
Just my two cents.
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