Dear Soror, THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!! My friend was telling me that she felt I made up this so called "unspoken code" because sleeping with a guy my friend slept with is something I would not do. She states if I believed it was o.k. I wouldn't have made this code up. I had to tell her that I believe not only myself, but numerous other women thought the same way. She didn't think that was totally true. I'm just glad to know that I'm not alone on this. ooooo-ooooop
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Originally posted by The Negotiator:
Soror,
I think you already know the answer to this one. This "friend" may not be someone that you want to hold so closely. And after over 10 years I ould have to wonder if she's ever done this before? There is an unspoken code amongst friends...that when one of you is seeing,talking to or with a man that he is off limits. If your friend is even flirting with the idea that it is okay to be intimate with this man when you are interested (let alone sleeping with him) I think you need to watch her.
I hope this helps. Soror just remember that you have 200,000 SISTERS to lean on  .
The Negoitoator
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