[ISUKappa]

We did personalized CDs of some of our favorite songs and had a lot of favorable comments on them. Slightly time-consuming (we did 150) but worth it. I also like the flowers idea and the donations to charity. I've been to weddings where both are done. Edible favors are also very good--especially if they're at the table or where the seating cards are. Some people have to wait a long time before they get their food, and any little thing helps (especially if there's an open bar--but that's a whole 'nother topic).

I'm on the side of "don't include registry info with the invite." I post on a wedding board and many a catfight has been started with that topic. Just Say No. Though, I did put our wedding website URL on the map insert (along with numbers and descriptions of the hotel blocks) and then had our registry info on our website. That seemed a little more acceptable to me. It wasn't as if we were begging for presents, but people knew where to go if they wanted.