I've been honest about my number before to my friends- they've been surprised- i haven't told anyone i've dated- i was dating one guy for a year on and off- his number i know is higher than mine- but he knows i'm definatley in competition( we have some mutual friends) but otherwise it hasn't come up.... if a guy asked me that i was interested in.... i'd prob keep it under 10 though..... i'm in college- who else needs to know except me? (and i'm tested and eveyrthing is fine) i used to get intimidated by guys that had a higher number- the guy i lost my viriginity to told me that he slept with 6- so for some reason i felt like i had to "beat" him and then the next guy i dated- same thing... it was something psychological i guess- i had to feel equal- however- looking back on it- this was pretty stupid....