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And Jules' .02 is....
As long as the person is getting tested regularly (and you're in it for sex/fun) it doesn't matter. You can sleep with one person and get HIV, and you can bang the entire block and never get an STD. If they are healthy, and you are healthy, and you're doin it, great.
This number matters to me if I'm interested in the person as someone to date (which is basically all the time- I won't sleep w/someone I'm not dating, hence my odd-defying low number.) If they have had 30 partners and they're 21....ok then I'd want to know- were some girlfriends?? All? None?? This is either a guy who lost his virginity early, has been in quite a few relationships but hasn't found the right girl, is a male slut, or treats girls like shit. Or a combination of all of the above. My point is, there are reasons behind the numbers. Depending on what you want the partner for, you may or may not need to know.
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