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I'm pretty sure I've said this before, but here it is again:
The number doesn't matter. It's irrelevant. I would never judge someone or think less of her because she was a virgin or had one partner her entire life (although I might be curious as to whether the sex is really bad) and I would hope that people would be respectful of women whose numbers are larger than theirs as well. Apparently I'm living in a dream world, because the double standard continues and women are harshly judged if they are more sexually active than others. I think that's BS.
I prefer not to discuss numbers. It's unfortunate, but often men get insecure when a woman's number is larger than theirs, and I'm sure that some of the harsh judgment our society has for sexually experienced women stems from this. I don't ever lie about my number -- I don't know what it is, so I couldn't. I don't care about my guy's number, either.
The bottom line comes down to this: as long as you protect yourself and stay healthy, I say have fun and enjoy yourself.
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