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originally posted by 33girl
Anyway, she brings up a very good point - (I think you got it backwards Annie) - what if an alum is very vehement about a girl NOT getting in and the sisters all want her?
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Then it's up to the sisters and/or chapter/Alumnae Reference chair. It's hard when it's one word against another, but, like I said before, you have to put some trust and faith in each other as sisters. If it's early on during Recruitment (i.e. day 1 or 2) I'd invite her back for the next round and have other girls (not only susie sister) talk to her and see if they think she'll fit the chapter. Technically NO alums, save the Recruitment advisor or Alumnae Reference chair should even have contact or know what's going on with a chapter's recruitment until after Bid Day, so if she's interfering that much during recruitment, that's a red flag right there. If the sisters really want her and think she'll be a great member, take her!