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Originally posted by Taualumna
So James, you're saying that I should lose my virginity now and catch up with girls my age (24), and have like 5 partners?
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It didn't appear that James said anything of the sort, but maybe I'm horrible at reading between the lines. What is "too many" to one potential partner may not be too many to another. It's going to be personal based on what one person brings to the table.
The number of previous partners, in my opinion, isn't AS important--because you should be protecting yourself AND regularly being tested for all sorts of STIs (it's more important for women because many STIs can be confused as cramps or UTIS, and undetected STIs can result in infertility) annually. If she is taking care of herself by practicing safer sex and being tested, I wouldn't worry too much.