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Originally posted by ZTAngel
Not sure if this has been discussed and I don't feel like searching. la la la la
How many bed partners is too much? If you were dating someone and they told you a number, what number would they have to say in order to make you not interested in the person any longer?
I was discussing this with a friend of mine who had a little too much fun during her college days.  I mean, the girl probably could've opened the top to a soda bottle with her tongue. She has since calmed down and met a guy a few months ago that she really liked. A conversation about her past came up and she told him her number. She never heard from him again.
I guess my next question is: should you be honest about your number?
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Well, if you plan on ever having sex with the person....Hell No. I always lie in the begining and tell them around 8 or 9. Later on down the road after I've put some time in a realtionship I let the truth come out. And the turth is....I don't know. I quit counting years ago. U should see the look on some of their faces. But at that point not much surprises the girl and usually I'm met with "I'm glad you told me now rather than earlier. I wouldn't have dated you other wise." I would seriously like to meet your friend, a bottle cap? Jesus, that girl has been given a talent. I don't know why any guy would leave her.
Anyhow, I think after you hit a certain age you shouldn't ask. 9 times out of 10 the response is just going to be a lie. Whether its less to make you look less dirty or if its more to make you seem more experienced, most people think their particular number is not the right one. And the truth is, there is no perfect number. Each person is different. On one hand you have the type of people who are like " I'm staying below 10" and on the other hand you have people like me who say " The more the merrier ". Granted I don't sleep around like that anymore, but I can't see how the hell I would have become as good in bed as I am had I not ran through so much a$$ during college. I seriously make women fall in love with me. I would have loved to have met you're friend back in the day if she was cute. I would so give her a run for her money. I've had the sex talk with my GF. She's a smart girl and I think she's caught on. At the same time I think there's more to her story than what she's let out. She's said she is expereinced.....but intially I could tell she wasn't as much as she made out. Still, I'm not complaining.