[polarpi]

Maybe I'm odd, but I've never preferred the "a-hole" over the "nice guy"....I become friends with both types, and the only guy that I've been interested up until this point was the nicest guy in the world....very gentleman like and at times it seemed like he went over the top....of course, he now is engaged to a wonderful woman who'll make him very happy, and him and I are still the best of friends!