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wow, justamom, that's some of the best advice on this subject i have ever seen!! you totally hit it on the head!
the only thing i would add is that i think a lot of women grow out of the whole not-dating-"nice"-guys phase by the end of college, because usually by then most women have dated one or more complete jerks who treat them badly. when women realize that while these people may be "cool", they're not going to change into nice boyfriends, then they're ready to wake up and be smart about who they date.
at least, that's been my experience in my own life and with my friends. don't worry stan, soon women will be throwing themselves at your feet when they realize the value of a gentleman. i think it's almost like you have to experience the bad to appreciate the good, you know?
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