I agree with Opi - be yourself. If you are just a nice guy, you have nothing to worry about and the right girl will appreciate it and love you for it.
If you are a pushover and are lacking in self-confidence though, I think it is a total turnoff, and you need to find out how to fix that.
Without more information, it's hard to say though... Can you give examples of your nice-or-possibly-pushover behavior?
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