Stan,
It's amazing how many women perceive sincere niceness as being a pushover. I never really did understand the phrase "nice guys finish last" cuz who in the hell would date a jerk?
Was that other person a guy or a girl you were seeing? and what did they make that comment (give an example).
I know it sounds kinda corny, but "be yourself". Be a gentleman cuz there sure is a shortage of 'em!
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