I'm the type to sort of scoff at traditions that I see as silly and useless, and am saying "ditto" on the idea of not having favors. I've never never heard of a favor that was that cool, so why waste the money? You're wedding can definitely still be classy - I've been to weddings that were in the neighborhood of $150,000 (i.e. very classy, very high society) that didn't have favors, and no one was offended...
If you do want to do something, I think the seeds or a small tree that guests can plant in their yards are both good ideas.
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