But what about the bigger schools that will cut every girl (or almost every girl) from open parties that do not have a rec prior to that night? They don't know the girl, so how can they know they really want the girl?
First party everyone goes to. To my knowledge no one cuts girls before day 1 (i.e the first day of rush). Girls with and without recs are there. Suzie Jones has no rec (the sorority already knows this bec they know exactly who is coming through). In the course of their day one rotations, Cindy Sorority meets Suzie and thinks wow, she's great! That night the sisters meet to figure out who to invite back to the second party. Cindy stands up and says we need to invite Suzie back. She doesn't have a rec, the other sisters say, so they go and get one for her if they want to invite her back to their day 2 "you must have a rec to get to this point party." You can get a rec at any point in time.
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