In my case, it'd depend on the age of their child. While I don't feel like I'm ready right now to become an instant mother, I know that it can work out (my family is a prime example....from both my mom and my dad's remarriages, I have a total of 7 stepsiblings!) But, seeing as I'm only 23, I don't really see myself getting involved with anyone who has a child that was born while I was still in the first two years of high school, so anyone with children who are 8 years old or older would be a little uncomfortable for me to get involved with. If I was already involved with him and had already started to really like him, that could be a different decision on my part, but seeing as how I'm not really into the dating scene at all (at this point), I don't think I have anything to really be concerned about