well since i am starting to date men who are old enough to be married and divorced, i guess i would have to take it case by case. if he hid it from me, then i would think he was shady and send him packing. if he does tell me early on, i wouldn't want to rush into meeting the kids right away. i really don't want to be an insta-mom, but i need to be realistic that people get married in their early 20s...have kids and get divorced. so when they are in their 30s, it is pretty possible.
if i were still in my early 20s, i definately would run the other way.
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