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Originally posted by SkeeWee14
So is it "mandatory" to put your fiance's sister(s) in your wedding? I'm just wondering, because I have no intention of including them in my bridal party (when we do get hitched). Not because of anything personal, but simply because we aren't "friends". Our only connection is him. They haven't shared life experiences with me like my friends have. If anything I will like for them to serve as a hostess or something. Am I wrong and just looking for conflict? 
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Honestly, Soror, I believe in order to keep the peace, you might wanna consider having his sister(s) in the bridal party. If they turn you down, then so much the better, but contrary to what anyone says, you ARE marrying his family as well as him although you won't be living with them. Not only may it hurt their feelings, it will (IMHO) "subliminally" be sending him a message that you don't care for his family. I think you should do it as a courtesy. And believe you me, someone will come up to his mom and ask "Why wasn't Sandra in the wedding?"
Sometimes you hafta do things to keep the peace. Why you? Well, sometimes we have to be the bigger person.
That's just my $.08 worth.