Pire:
The thread was about being SUPERFICIAL... In other words: things that cause you to form an opinion about someone without knowing them.
I don't think the thread was intended to be mean. But, it is about being shallow. It's things we all COULD be more understanding about, but are listing because they bother us.
I don't think anyone is attacking anyone here.
I also understand your closeness to one of the issues. But, I think there are going to be some things on here that hit too close to home for everyone.
But, it's all SUPERFICIAL stuff. Hopefully, we all look past things to get to know the person.