[astroAPhi]

Well, I see a few possible scenarios:

1. She sees you as the type that she could spend the rest of her life with, but wants to be "bad" for awhile. Some people buy into the stupid mentality that they have their whole life to be with the perfect one for the rest of their lives, so they should have as much fun as possible. Often, they drive away "the perfect one" because they're tired of being hurt.

2. She was hurt, and now she wants you to keep chasing her. That jumped out to me when you said she was surprised that you told her you'd be there, but not pursue her.

I think this chick is playing you. Tell her to get her act together quick before you find someone new. You don't deserve to be treated like this.