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I was really touched by your last post. One other possibility that kind of follows your description of this man-
He may have her momentarily swept off her feet. If she waits for his calls and cancels out, he has the emotional control in the relationship. Who knows what new experiences she is having
and she may just be caught up in the excitement of things being different.
That aside, your best indicator may be those closest to her if they are your friend too. It just sounds like this guy is consuming all her time.........does he know about you and the conversations you've had? Maybe he's made it into a conquest and she's the prize.
I wouldn't go out there and lead anyone on but, speaking for myself, it's pretty effective to let the ex see you with someone else- having fun. It would be good for you too.
I do know how you feel. Though some of our breakups weren't quite that long, I always knew he was the one. The thought of that being lost forever was painful.
I hope you find your way back to each other. Just give her room and time.
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