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She says she will always love me, but doesn't know if she is in love with me. So I don't think that is a problem as far as scaring her with my straightforwardness.
Sometimes, this is a statement people use to let someone down easy.
James and PiEp299 BOTH make excellent comments. I experienced something very similar in my on and off relationship with Hubby. I'm just not sure in which "role" you are cast.
Just from your posts, if accurate and not blurred by love/wanting what you no longer have I would guess...
1. They are intimate.
2. He has made her feel like she has a future with him.
3. You hurt her so deeply that she HAD to shut you out and bury her feelings...love can die when the pain is unbearable.
By your physical description, could she be doing any kind of drugs that the two of you never used?
Could he be a a manipulator and she is a bit afraid of HIS jealousy?
If you really love her, then all you can do is wait to see how it plays out. In the meantime, you too should see other women.
Sometimes the memory of a relationship is more beautiful than the reality of it. What are HER memories?
"Though nothing can bring back the hour
Of splendour in the grass, of glory in the flower;
We will grieve not, rather find
Strength in what remains behind."
Wordsworth
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